Say that you get an e-mail from someone, and you can tell immediately that you have no interest in communicating with that person.
Here are the Internet-appropriate ways to say no: Note that Internet dating sites vary in the sophistication of their features.
Don’t blame yourself for what happened, because what’s not meant to be won’t be. You’re going to spend a lot of time lying in bed with your mind clawing relentless at you about the rejection.
Instead, take it as an opportunity for you to grow stronger. You need to occupy yourself at home when you’re all by yourself. Once enough time has passed, you’ll come to realize that certain things just aren’t within your control.
By Judith Silverstein, Michael Lasky The Internet is a strange place, and what seems abnormal for in-person experiences is completely common on the Internet.
When we type in our logins and go surfing for love, out come all our animalistic instincts: We refuse to give a second look to those who don't meet our physical requirements, rudely ignore those we don't find worthy and generally let our ids run wild. " we think gleefully, our brains reverting to caveman-like activity. In short: Online dating is not for the easily offended.
So if you're offering your heart up to the WWW gods, don't be too put off by the following social un-graces.
Notice that the word is common, not polite or considerate.
You need to know how to dish out rejection in an appropriate way.